Most of the business owners I work with are parents too. Their leadership issues at home are the same in business. 😮😮 It is often way more powerful for me to address the patterns in the context of parenting and let the change flow over onto their style at work. I say “easier”, it’s actually, …
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Wherever you are kicking ass and feeling good about yourself, please notice that you’ve got a mixture of self~esteem and self~confidence there. 🤗👍💪🏽 Esteem is how you think of yourself. 💪🏽 Confidence is certainty around your ability to perform. 💪🏽 🛑 Wherever you are struggling and being tough on yourself, identify if it’s both or …
Seeking relief from External stress or Internal stress. It’s got to be relieved or it damages our nervous system. ⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡ ⚡⚡Connection ⚡⚡Comfort ⚡⚡Control They are the 3 main paths to relief and there are unlimited ways to walk those paths… Some have desirable outcomes, others not! We grow, we learn, it’s messy, it’s beautiful, it’s …
When we are TOUGH on ourselves we don’t grant a lot of grace, space and humanity to ourselves. We withhold many gifts and one of the ways I like to address TOUGHNESS is detailing what we could allow, grant and give permission to ourselves for. Here’s a favourite of mine that I face everyday. Taking …
Snapping and scrapping. That’s how my stress response looks in early stages. Anger and overwhelm is when I’m fully in the red zone. We live in an overstimulating environment which means our nervous system pays the price. Having a baseline of stress support, we all can use that. Healing old active stress charges is where …
From the walking, talking, making-shit-happen on a ball hurtling through space down to the tiny electromagnetic actions in your cells. You are MAGIC! Every one of us has our own MAGIC. We can’t see our own eyeballs though and a lot leaders don’t recognize their unique powers and spend mental energy on what they AREN’T …
RANT! Can we stop with the comparing? Everyone has a different threshold. A different past experience. A different set of coping strategies. What is “no big deal” for you might be the most traumatic experience someone else has ever encountered. Our neurology does not have a reference guide. All trauma is valid. Deserving on attention …
Is the circle wrong? Notice what you saw first. The 3 things being the same or the 1 thing being different… Learning what our “meta programs” (cognitive patterns) are, helps us massively by allowing us to challenge our biases and practiced ways. Rewiring ourselves is always an option. Brain plasticity is real fam. Conscious rewiring …
Where do these ideas of yours come from??? Ideas come from any of the 6 i’s… Where we think from… 1. Instinct Survival protocols that we share with all the other mammals ~ fight, flight, feed and fuck. Protect what’s mine. 2. Intelligence Life experience combined with our natural cognitive abilities produces “intelligence”. Cognitive abilities …
😠🤬 Snappy bitches and grumpy bastards 😅🤣 Would you tell your child they aren’t ______ enough? ❌ NEVER ❌ You would give critique, feedback and encouragement. BUT your mind is just as precious as theirs! And therein lies the dilemma. We have the conditioning of criticism on top of …
